Who are we to judge?
Who are we to judge people?
Who are we to say, one is bad or good?
If one is bad or good, will he/she stay that way?
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Some people change for the better, some worse.
Some change unknowingly,
Some want to make a difference, be different.
Some change due to the circumstances, the environment.
Some probably stay the same. Even if not wholly.
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Some people keep secrets, does that make them bad?
Some people pray 5 times a day, does that make them good?
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Who are we to judge??
Who are we to say, one is bad or good?
If one is bad or good, will he/she stay that way?
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Some people change for the better, some worse.
Some change unknowingly,
Some want to make a difference, be different.
Some change due to the circumstances, the environment.
Some probably stay the same. Even if not wholly.
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Some people keep secrets, does that make them bad?
Some people pray 5 times a day, does that make them good?
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Who are we to judge??
posted by marina at 4:42 PM
my dear doc,
I too was like you - albeit in a different situation. I did not (want to) marry husband orang. But, there was something (bad) about my future husband that everybody knows that I didnt see.I saw a bit, but decided that like you, people change.
People did try to tell me, hinted to me - but I was idealistic just like you. I questioned their judgement - like you did.
So I went ahead.
And everything that they said, rang true.
Dah terantuk, baru nak mengadah.
And I have lived in hell since Day One.
You are too smart to fall for such mistake.
p/s I may not be a friend - but I definitely not a foe.
Good luck.
Anon:
Thanks for the comment. I guess everyone has a story to tell. Life isn`t always full of sunshine. That, at least that, i know.
Whether or not the person you want to have a relationship or want to spend the rest of your life with, will be the RIGHT person or not, only God knows. Life is like gambling. About taking risks. Right now i`m still thinking how much chips to bet on the centre table....
marina,
Jangan pikir perasaan you saja. what 'bout his wife? his kids? Dont be selfish dear
Dear Marina,
It is said that God speaks to us in many ways. It's up to us to hear it in our surroundings. Right or wrong, only He will know but don't close your heart to His whispers. If you let go now and it's meant to be, it will come back, so tread cautiously. I pray you find happiness.
Aina:
The other one has consented, and there are no grudges between us. I would never hurt another woman`s feelings for the sake of my happiness. Otherwise, i cannot sleep peacefully at night.
Sahr:
Thank you for the prayers. I haven`t closed my heart to Gods whispers, never will, but my heart still feel strong for him.
yes life is a gamble. if you want to take risks which can be exciting, i hope you will be prepared for what ever's to come. me, i wish only happiness for you.
There are a lot of games that associated with gambling. Yet, I don't think life is a part of any game.
Good poker players will always 'fold' their cards when they know that what they have in their hands are 'bad cards' :-)Another game will start soon after...
BTW... if you really want to gamble, go to VEGAS! :-)